Saturday, December 1, 2012

The Life and Times of a Bibliophile

Today the Harvard Bookstore had its semiannual warehouse book sale. Thank Goddess I remembered; I almost forgot it was happening until I looked on Twitter and saw a reminder. I looked forward to it all last night, sitting in my cozy, already book lined apartment, (reading on my Kindle- Ha Ha!) knowing that Saturday would include a productive day of top notch book browsing. 

You see, even though I shouldn't even buy one more book, a book lover cannot, should not resist the semiannual Harvard Bookstore warehouse book sale! It would be sacrilegious.

There are very few real bookstores left anywhere these days.so you've got to get what you can.

Finding parking in Somerville was not easy--- every geek and his goofy girlfriend was out, including wandering professors and other weirdos. I fit right in, and made a bee line into the warehouse straight for the Science and History Departments. (( Luckily there are subjects I'm definitely not interested in, like Math, astronomy, and cooking. I skirted around these shelves.)) History was packed, but I made my way up and down the aisle, skillfully practicing book browsing etiquette. Unfortunately some people would not budge, and I had to revisit. 

One criteria for not buying some books I saw was that I already owned several unread books on the same subject. For instance they had several great selections on Abraham Lincoln, but I didn't buy one. Abraham Lincoln and his generals. Lincoln during his prairie days. Lincoln and his depression. I thought of all the books on Abraham Lincoln I have yet to read. 

Good old Abe.Apparently thousands of books about Lincoln have been written.....

Meanwhile I overheard a man ask a woman: "Do you think you could read all these books in your lifetime?" (I sensed it was their first date.) She said "yes" and I thought it was a stupid answer. I thought:"She's just trying to impress him, or she's an airy head optimistic." They were younger than me, but still you can't read all the books you want to read in your lifetime. Maybe I thought that when I was younger, because I had fewer interests, and there were books yet to written! But I know now that unless you want to be a recluse hiding in your room, ceasing interaction with the world, then you can't read all the books you want to read.

So there has to be some other reason to buy books, or no reason at all. I know I'll never read them all, but I still want a collection anyway. Depending on my mood, I might read any one of them at any time, or even reread some. That's why I get old favorites, too, of books I've already read.For example today I bought "When God Was a Woman," which I read a million years ago. How can an arch feminist not have a copy of "When God was a Woman?" How can a New Englander not own Thoreau's Walden? How can a queer not have Truman Capote's Breakfast at Tiffany's? How can a liberal American not have "The People's History of the United States?" The list goes on and on. 

The newbies to the collection:

A Listmania! list by cataylor122
 
Animals Make Us Human: Creating the Best Life for Animals
1.  Animals Make Us Human: Creating the Best Life for Animals by Temple Grandin





What the Buddha Taught
2.  What the Buddha Taught by Walpola Rahula


The Book of Deadly Animals
3.  The Book of Deadly Animals by Gordon Grice





POPism: The Warhol Sixties
4.  POPism: The Warhol Sixties 





The Mind's Eye
5.  The Mind's Eye by Oliver Sacks


100 Selected Poems
6.  100 Selected Poems by E. E. Cummings


Eudora Welty: A Biography
7.  Eudora Welty: A Biography by Suzanne Marrs


Elizabeth's Women
8.  Elizabeth's Women by Tracy Borman


The First North Americans: An Archaeological Journey
9.  The First North Americans: An Archaeological Journey by Brian M. Fagan





When God Was a Woman
10.  When God Was a Woman by Merlin Stone


Every Day Life in the Massachusetts Bay Colony
11.  Every Day Life in the Massachusetts Bay Colony by George Francis Dow


The Tribes of Britain
12.  The Tribes of Britain by David Miles


Labor of Love, Labor of Sorrow: Black Women , Work, and the Family, from Slavery to the Present
13.  Labor of Love, Labor of Sorrow: Black Women , Work, and the Family, from Slavery to the Present by Jacqueline Jones



Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Political Leanings

I took a politics quiz before the election. It turns out that philosophically I side most with the Green Party. I'm not surprised... If the Green Party ever had a chance in hell of winning, I'd probably vote for a candidate. In the meantime, Barack's my man. I wonder what it is that I agree with Mitt about12%?

Candidates you side with...

95%
Jill Stein
Jill Stein Green

86%
Barack Obama
Barack Obama Democrat

Rocky Anderson
Rocky Anderson Justice

12%
Mitt Romney
Mitt Romney Republican
68%

Massachusetts Voters

62%

American Voters
Parties you side with...
96% Democrat
95% Green
33% Libertarian
5% Republican

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Steph and Rosalie Singing at Molly's BDay Party


The Poet Laureate of the Fenwick Compound

Johnathan recites his epic poem in honor of Molly's 50th birthday party. 

For Molly

And as we solemnly wander in from the autumnal gloom,
myriad faces greet us and light up the room...
For tonight we celebrate, and eschew our sorrow -for very 
soon shall come the 'morrow, finding ourselves again alone... 
footfalls echoing in corridors unknown...

And in solitude, our minds doth fear 
to ponder the passing of yet another year
But tonight -tonight! We gather as one, and though it 
seems we seek not but fun,
'Tis in fact a bittersweet reality
 that we ponder the passing of half a century...
And what better subject to serve as our muse
 than Molly, sweet Molly, and not Thomas Cruise

For is there a kinder being on yon Winter Hill, than the 
 brown-eyed girl from Rockford, Ill.?
Annoyed she is so seldom, and though Christine causes 
bedlam in her life,
She remains her common-law wife....

And what love it takes to endure the foul -
the foulness of a dog that is moving its bowels!
In the misty morning on the top of a hill,
a frosty poop snagged and bagged by the girl from 
Rockford, Ill.

And what of Wrigley, that son of a butch, who chomped 
my shin and nipped my foot?
And with his sharp teeth glistening and bared,
Christine sat motionless, like a frozen LaClair

But in walked Molly in stockings and garters,
and took charge of the scene, but that's just for starters!
For when I was lost she offered a room and bed,
And though in the night she gave me no head,
I thought it neither selfish nor silly, 
understanding her proclivity.

But she gave me the strength and courage 
to move my own bowels from Extra Space storage, 
 loading the truck and giving the fuck 
I was not able to give myself. 
And taking my life down from the shelf 
Molly and Chris packed it all, 
for indeed they know something about U-haul... 

And tomorrow when our delirium has passed, 
and we find ourselves alone, aghast, 
let us remember this evening when the room was warm 
and our faces shone 
with the light that occurs when life becomes a poem, 
keeping comfort from the cold 
as outside the autumn winds doth blow... 

-Jonathan Donahue Copyright 2012 Poet Laureate Fenwick Compound 11/10/12

Joel Takes the Plunge

This is an old video from last year. It's my cousin Joel dipping into the cold November waters of Sebago Lake in Maine. He splendidly entertained all of us, plus greatly impressed his younger cousins Natalie, Gavin, and Zach with his antics. Now he's in the Air Force, stationed in Texas. On this Veteran's Day, I hope for Joel's safety and health, and think of the other members of my family that have served in the armed forces. I love how the video begins with my niece running off to retrieve her brothers for the show.



Saturday, November 10, 2012

What's in your DNA?

I have recently received my Ancestry.com DNA kit in the mail. Soon I will spit into a tube and send off my bodily fluids to be analyzed. There are other choices for DNA analysis, like the National Geographic option, that may be more detailed and encompassing, but I talked to a friend and she said her first and cheaper choice was the Ancestry.com offer. If the Ancestry.com results are tantalizing and bring more questions and curiosity, then I'll likely go for the National Geographic analysis too, and will probably try to get my father to submit. Before I get the results, I thought I would write about my expectations. What surprises might there be? What will unlikely be a surprise at all? 
Expected:
  • I would expect that about 60 percent of my DNA ancestry should be from the British Isles-- England and Ireland. 
  • I know I have some Scandinavian DNA. 
  • I'm probably all Northern European.
Surprises or Questions to be answered: 
  • Do I have any German ancestry? Was my great-grandfather on my father's side, David Miller Taylor, German? 
  • Do I have any Native American blood? Did my great-grandmother Jedidah Pinhorn have an indigenous female relative in Canada?
  •  Do I have French ancestry? Perhaps? 
  •  Can the DNA test tell me how far back my Norwegian ancestry goes? 
  • It would be a real shocker if I had Asian or African American blood, but you never know.  
  • Were my ancestors ancient Druids? 

I don't know if DNA analysis will tell you anything more than what you can research in documents. I suppose it should, since DNA should go back before people kept records. We shall see.....

Saturday, November 3, 2012

The Odd Collections

I know that in the big scheme of things, I hardly have any odd collections, nor do I have any extensive collections. Space and my mother's practical voice speaking in the back of my head prevent me from going hog wild. I would like to collect hoards of victor Victrolas, teapots, antique phones, watches, salt and pepper shakers, old cameras, to name a few. But thank goddess I do not have an attic, or a barn, or a huge basement at my disposal. 

I browse Ebay and Etsy with a dreamy look on my face, but I deter myself mostly. Small collections, carefully chosen and packed away, have made the cut. I have already featured my black cat collection, and my various book collections. 

Here are a couple of my other small collections---cuff links, pez dispensers, and card holders. These items can easily be shoved away in a drawer, or contained on a shelf for display. 

I know these collections are not great in number, or very unique. These items won't get me featured in the World Book of Records, or the blog of weird collections, but they provide some small relief to the hoarding itch.

Monday, October 22, 2012

Fall Fun Days

On Saturday I went to the Apple Fest at Wachuset Mountain Park in Princeton Massachusetts with a group of friends. It was a gorgeous quintessential autumn day in New England! The sky was blue, the sun bright, and the orange and yellow leaves on the trees were brilliant.
a waffle's final moments
Don't try this at home...

We spent the day eating apple dumplings, cider doughnuts, caramel apples, and waffles. Activities included a fantastic raptor demonstration, a hayride, and two rides on the sky lift. Except for a bland lunch, I'd say it was a great day. Great company and lots of laughing too. We arrived early-- at 11 am -- which turned out to be smart. By 2 pm the festival was mobbed with people, including screaming children and wobbling elderly people. The Apple Fest attracts its share of large families, and the odd group of queers here and there too. 

Friday, October 12, 2012

Recent Acquisitions in the Museum of the Baronesque


It's 20 before Mona
Recent acquisitions in the Museum of the Baronesque

 Despite, or perhaps because of my recent purging in August, I've been on a collecting spree. Soon I'll be sick of it, or start buying oddities for others instead. Still, I'm proud to display my recent unique additions to the household. The kitties hopefully won't knock over any precious items.
Liquor cabinet?-- made by grandfather





bikini lady glasses-ou la la
 


Doggie peeing salt and pepper shaker!
 

Alice in Wonderland Demitasse cup-
How queer everything is today!



JUICE! Obviously



Naked Lady Mug

Mustache Mugs!From Etsy!
 



Nifty Mini Notebook


Witchy Shoes

Girly Eiffel Tower Bank

Mona Lisa Mugs

More demitasse cups- time for a party






Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Buddhism and Psychology

The following books have helped me so much in my life in the past decade. Buddhism, psychology, cognitive therapy..... have been essential discoveries for me. Though I've hardly evolved to where I want, I'm trying! I made a list on Amazon's Listamania!. I love Listamania! Only a bibliophile would know....

Buddhism and Psychology

A Listmania! list by cataylor122
Start Where You Are
1.  Start Where You Are by Pema Chodron


Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom
2.  Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom by Rick Hanson






Radical Acceptance
3.  Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach

 






Toward a Psychology of Awakening: Buddhism, Psychotherapy, and the Path of Personal and Spiritual Transformation
4.  Toward a Psychology of Awakening: Buddhism, Psychotherapy, and the Path of Personal and Spiritual Transformation by John Welwood

 





Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness (Shambhala Classics)
5.  Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness (Shambhala Classics) by Sharon Salzberg





The Wisdom of a Broken Heart
6.  The Wisdom of a Broken Heart by Susan Piver


Real Happiness
7.  Real Happiness by Sharon Salzberg


By Susan Piver: How Not to Be Afraid of Your Own Life: Opening Your Heart to Confidence, Intimacy, and Joy
8.  By Susan Piver: How Not to Be Afraid of Your Own Life: Opening Your Heart to Confidence, Intimacy, and Joy






Sunday, October 7, 2012

It's Tiggy Upland!

Here is my friend Jen Bonardi performing in Boston in 2011. Hopefully I'll have her 2012 performance uploaded soon. Tiggy is her alter ego advice columnist creation. She writes for the BiWomen Newsletter.

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Monday, September 3, 2012

Rolling in the Deep

Back in late August our fearless travelers the Baron and Kuligula set off for a cruise to Bermuda. On the second day on land, they tried out a helmet dive. This kind of dive was not scuba diving. Instead you submerged yourself into a beautiful 30 feet reef and walked or crawled around with a 40 pound helmet on your head. The water was like bath water it was so warm, and the bottom of the ocean was a gorgeous white sand, clear of rocks and seaweed. Although I had sharks and stingrays in the back of my mind, nothing came into my view that was alarming. My favorite critter was the angelfish. We did not get to see the puffer fish, which I guess is kind of cool. Our fearless travelers got to touch and observe various tropical life forms. Along with this bizarre trip came these equally bizarre and amusing photos of our fearless travelers in gear and under the water. With those gigantic helmets, we hardly look cool. (Please note that facial features are grossly magnified).

Sunday, September 2, 2012

The Disturbing Case

In 1974 my family moved from my grandmother's house to a new three family only six blocks away. I know it was ridiculous, but I missed my grandmother terribly and didn't want to move. My father had bought a very run-down three family in Somerville, Ma. It was the most he could afford at the time. The house was a mess and I disliked living there. My Dad had to refurbish the other two apartments before he could refurbish ours. Never mind the outside of the house. I was embarrassed to have my friends see where I lived. We lived with plaster walls and dirty floors for a long time. 

When we moved in, an old couple named Gallison lived on the first floor, and they moved out not too long afterwards. I don't remember ever seeing them. All I can remember about them is that they painted the stained glass windows black, the windows on the china cabinet, and kept the shades drawn always. It was weird, and even creepier was the basement of the house. I remember in one corner of the cellar there was a bed, beers cans and trash everywhere. Their son had lived in the basement of the house on and off. 

I also remember finding a set of rosary beads in the basement. Raised as a Protestant in a sea of Catholics, I was intrigued with Catholic icons, but these beads gave me a sense of evil and bad karma. Some awful vibes lingered in that cellar. 

A few years later we found out that the son that lived on and off in the basement of our house-- Edward R. Gallison-- was indicted for murder. I remember sketchy details of the case. Something about dismembering his two children and putting them in the trash. We were horrified, but without the internet and mass media at the time we didn't know much about the facts. I can't remember how we found out, but more than likely my detailed oriented mom found an article in the local paper. 

I put the story out of my mind, but I remember having a nightmare about the family on first floor dismembering their children, putting them in a trash bag, and burying them on the side of our house. I can't recall if this dream was before or after the revelation about our former residents. I recall it as a haunting premonition.

Anyway, the other day I decided to look up the case. After some searching, I found the actual write up of the court trail in 1981. The details I remember are basically factual. The true story is that Edward and his wife Denise were convicted of manslaughter and child abuse and neglect of their two year old daughter Jennifer. They also were convicted of abuse of their son. They received 18 to 20 years.

It is unclear how exactly Jennifer died, whether she was deliberately beaten or died of illness and neglect or all three. It is also unclear which parent abused the child, or both. In any case this horrid incident happened during the blizzard of 1978, and the parents kept Jennifer's body in an unheated room in the apartment for six weeks. Edward then disposed of Jennifer in the trash, though Denise says he dismembered Jennifer first and laughed about it. He denies this though there was a knife and ax found with blood on it. Analysis at the time could not determine if it was human blood, or whose blood. Jennifer's body was never found.

The case was instrumental in Massachusetts as a rallying cry to improve state funding for agencies working on the behalf on abused children. A hotline was subsequently set up in Massachusetts because of Jennifer's case. I guess it's somewhat comforting to realize that something good came from the case. In fact Governor Michael Dukakis was criticized for not setting up the hotline fast enough, or putting enough money into it. It's ironic how the rallying cry now is for reduction of government and state funding. 
 
I don't know what happened to Denise and Edward Gallison, and how long they served their sentences. Let's hope it was long enough.

A picture of Jennifer Gallison, being held up by her former foster parent

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Why I Would Never Vote Republican

Last week my father and I faced a horde of arch Republicans at a family barbeque, and had to defend President Obama and our Democratic and 'liberal' views. I said to the women we were debating that I would never vote Republican. One woman responded that I was narrow-minded, and not open to debate. Well, in 1980 I voted for Ronald Reagan, and I voted for Governor Weld in Massachusetts. In the past, I have voted Republican, but times have changed. Today, I see no choice.

1. The Republican Party platform is one of exclusion. The Republican Party seeks to exclude minorities, gays, women, and immigrants by legislating restrictions on these people. 

2. As a gay woman, I wouldn't vote Republican because the current folks running for office are against my basic civil rights. 

3. The Republican Party is pro-military and pro-war, and we already spend millions and millions on the military and war. 

4. I find it hypocritical to stand against 'big government' running our lives, and then expect legislation to force women to make choices about their own bodies, and healthcare decisions. I can't think how a government can be any more intrusive.

5. The Republican Party today is dangerously close to mixing religion with government. The separation of church and state is crucial to American principles. Christianity is one religion in this country, not the religion. Freedom of religion means no domination or supremacy of one religion over others.

6. When the Republicans talk about 'big government,' they're talking about reducing or cutting varied social services. While I agree in reform and fiscal responsibility, eliminating social service programs ultimately hurts people. College loans, access to healthcare, pre-school programs, social security, and community clinics help people. I can't believe the richest country in the world can't provide basic services to its citizens.